It feels so good, you guys. PDF Print E-mail
Written by OHmommy   
Friday, 28 September 2012 00:00

Finally.

 

After months and months and months of weighing out all our options and re-evaluating our lives, we are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. That giant leap of faith, that caused our throats to tighten on so many occasions, seems like a little skip now.

 

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Not a tunnel; but, couldn't help sharing my new hallway with you.

 

The last nine months have been the most difficult time in our lives. We lost Grandma and everything went downhill from there. We've neglected our children trying to get our old house ready to sell and our new house ready to move in - they've been troopers throughout it all, hardly ever complaining and instead immersing themselves in our new adventure. The husband and I have also neglected each other throughout this process - there were many nights filled with anger and many days spent in marriage counselling. I'm happy to report that we are all stronger. So. Much. Stronger. And, more importantly, so much happier.

 

We are still paying double mortgages for both homes (anyone looking for an AWESOME home in an AWESOME 'burb of Cleveland?) and now we have unexpected medical bills (husband's previous employer canceled our health insurance without notifying us); but, we are surrounded by an extended supportive family that jumps at every opportunity to help us out and new careers that weren't even remotely obtainable just months ago. Thankfully (eh!) through the hardships of life, through those bloodcurdling cries, through those stupid life lessons that make you cry for your Mom - we are finally settling in and living life to the fullest.

 

It feels so good, you guys. So. Good!

Last Updated on Friday, 28 September 2012 09:16
 

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# rachel 2012-09-27 23:25
This just makes me so happy.
Happy for y'all!!!!!

The hardships just suck.. but how we come out on the other side... worth it and wow, such a blessing.
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# Kristin K 2012-09-27 23:27
I'm so happy for you! There's nothing like being surrounded by family. Absolutely nothing.
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# ShredderFeeder 2012-09-28 00:01
I still maintain that a good lawyer can have the medical bills taken care of and then some.

Cancelling health-insurance without following the letter of the COBRA requirements is a serious No-No...
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# Pam 2012-09-28 10:41
Very True!
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# Kristy 2012-09-28 00:08
I completely understand the feeling of having a rough year. It is physically, emotionally, and mentally draining.

I am so happy that things are finally starting to get better for you.

Now take a deep breath and go hug your babies. :-)
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# Naomi 2012-09-28 01:50
WOOT!
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# Elizabeth 2012-09-28 02:21
I'm so glad!
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# amy 2012-09-28 05:00
This made me smile HUGS and LOVE!!!
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# Loukia 2012-09-28 06:44
So so happy for you. xo
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# Laurie 2012-09-28 06:50
I'm so glad things are looking up, Pauline! :) As much as I should be concentrating on THAT good news, I can't help but concentrate on how incredibly awesome your baseboards are. The bigger the better, in my opinion, and those babies are big! :)
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# Michele 2012-09-28 07:10
Thinking & praying for you guys! I'm so glad things are starting to turn around. I pray your house sells fast & the medical bills work out. Love & hugs!!
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# Managed Chaos 2012-09-28 07:53
This post gave me serious goosebumps. And a heart that is overflowing with happiness that you are FINALLY experiencing the light at the end of the tunnel.

Love to hear how you are stronger, happier and so full of life again. It's exactly how things should be for you and your family. xoxo
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# Tiffany 2012-09-28 08:11
Yay! Congrats. That's awesome to hear :-)
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# designhermomma 2012-09-28 08:50
I like the sound of this post.
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# JAReece 2012-09-28 10:08
So glad things are going well for you now! Moving is always hard- but at least your family is nearby. And Chicago totally rocks.
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# Krissy 2012-09-28 11:59
Sweet Pauline ,

I have to tell you, I have been going through some wicked stress and anxiety lately. It's debilitating! I'm losing gobs of hair and bc of stress, my Fibromyalgia is now at the extreme side. There are days that I feel I will have a nervous breakdown.

I love your blog and words. You always have such a peace to your writing. I know that you save personal struggles for private and I respect that. Matter of factly I always thought that if I could have an ounce of her peace, I would be happy. You always inspire me.

I look forward to your post, because they are so upbeat. Perfect. I love them. But oddly, this post gave me more inspiration then ever before. Because I suddenly realized that even those I admire most, have to struggle sometimes to keep their head above the water. To hold on to their faith and to accept help. And even though you never detailed your struggles, you did voice that things have been a struggle. And I have more courage in the midst of the worst stress ever, I can fight back and win!

I read a lot of audobiographies from authors who detail their personal hell and survive. And I always get encouragement from them, and I just found more encouragement to carry on by this one little post! Thank you for that! Because I now have determination and hope!
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# Jess 2012-09-28 12:50
We own a small business and provide coverage for our employees. Legally, you have to let an employee know if you are terminating their insurance. You were entitled to COBRA the day the coverage was cancelled! It sounds like you guys have had way too many battles lately, but the insurance one is one that you can win!
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# Melissa 2012-09-28 14:33
Yeah, I'm so happy to hear you're on the other side. That must feel amazing!

(Sidebar: I assume you've already looked into what commenter Jess said above, but if not I'm unofficially off-the-record seconding that thought.)
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# Alexandra 2012-09-28 21:20
This makes me so happy.

Your honesty, and how you've trusted us with the details of your life, make me smile with the feeling of how we are all in this together.

Thank you for sharing. So very smiley here, thinking of you, and how you're on the other side now.

There is no way around it, just through it.

xo MUCH LOVE TO YOU.
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# Stephanie Precourt 2012-09-29 13:19
I am so glad. So right there with you. SURELY our buyers are going to buy this weekend. Yes?

Steph
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# marlys 2012-09-29 15:18
Once again you are making lemonade, my friend. What a year, and it DID NOT kill you. I don't know that you are stronger because you always seemed strong, but maybe now you realize your strength. And...karma is a bitch.
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# Elaine A. 2012-09-30 22:04
You've been through a lot and I am SO very happy to know that you are coming out on top. I always knew you would. Thinking of you and praying as you continue to transition.
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# # mama tina 2012-10-04 01:13
So HAPPY for your family. I know firsthand how awful this past year has been for all of you! Losing your mother in law was so hard. Roseann was a wonderful lady and she loved you all so much. She would love your gorgeous home! I agree with the comments regarding the previous employer and the insurance issues! Don't let them get away with it!
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# Sarah G 2012-10-13 03:44
Nice to hear how happy I are. The best life changes are like births, fear and doubting pain followed by joy and relief. I'm loving reading about your awesome new life - your new house looks like a dream!
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Happily married mother to 3 Cleveland natives: Jay the son, Lola the daughter, and Fifi the banshee.

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