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| Written by OHmommy | |
| Friday, 28 September 2012 00:00 | |
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Finally.
After months and months and months of weighing out all our options and re-evaluating our lives, we are beginning to see the light at the end of the tunnel. That giant leap of faith, that caused our throats to tighten on so many occasions, seems like a little skip now.
Not a tunnel; but, couldn't help sharing my new hallway with you.
The last nine months have been the most difficult time in our lives. We lost Grandma and everything went downhill from there. We've neglected our children trying to get our old house ready to sell and our new house ready to move in - they've been troopers throughout it all, hardly ever complaining and instead immersing themselves in our new adventure. The husband and I have also neglected each other throughout this process - there were many nights filled with anger and many days spent in marriage counselling. I'm happy to report that we are all stronger. So. Much. Stronger. And, more importantly, so much happier.
We are still paying double mortgages for both homes (anyone looking for an AWESOME home in an AWESOME 'burb of Cleveland?) and now we have unexpected medical bills (husband's previous employer canceled our health insurance without notifying us); but, we are surrounded by an extended supportive family that jumps at every opportunity to help us out and new careers that weren't even remotely obtainable just months ago. Thankfully (eh!) through the hardships of life, through those bloodcurdling cries, through those stupid life lessons that make you cry for your Mom - we are finally settling in and living life to the fullest.
It feels so good, you guys. So. Good! |
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| Last Updated on Friday, 28 September 2012 09:16 |













Comments
Happy for y'all!!!!!
The hardships just suck.. but how we come out on the other side... worth it and wow, such a blessing.
Cancelling health-insurance without following the letter of the COBRA requirements is a serious No-No...
I am so happy that things are finally starting to get better for you.
Now take a deep breath and go hug your babies. :-)
Love to hear how you are stronger, happier and so full of life again. It's exactly how things should be for you and your family. xoxo
I have to tell you, I have been going through some wicked stress and anxiety lately. It's debilitating! I'm losing gobs of hair and bc of stress, my Fibromyalgia is now at the extreme side. There are days that I feel I will have a nervous breakdown.
I love your blog and words. You always have such a peace to your writing. I know that you save personal struggles for private and I respect that. Matter of factly I always thought that if I could have an ounce of her peace, I would be happy. You always inspire me.
I look forward to your post, because they are so upbeat. Perfect. I love them. But oddly, this post gave me more inspiration then ever before. Because I suddenly realized that even those I admire most, have to struggle sometimes to keep their head above the water. To hold on to their faith and to accept help. And even though you never detailed your struggles, you did voice that things have been a struggle. And I have more courage in the midst of the worst stress ever, I can fight back and win!
I read a lot of audobiographies from authors who detail their personal hell and survive. And I always get encouragement from them, and I just found more encouragement to carry on by this one little post! Thank you for that! Because I now have determination and hope!
(Sidebar: I assume you've already looked into what commenter Jess said above, but if not I'm unofficially off-the-record seconding that thought.)
Your honesty, and how you've trusted us with the details of your life, make me smile with the feeling of how we are all in this together.
Thank you for sharing. So very smiley here, thinking of you, and how you're on the other side now.
There is no way around it, just through it.
xo MUCH LOVE TO YOU.
Steph
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