Stanislaw Karwowski PDF Print E-mail
Written by OHmommy   
Sunday, 13 September 2009 19:01
Tonight my mother, along with her two sisters, is flying across the Atlantic to bury her father. My grandfather umarl w spokoju or died in peace today, in a Polish hospital at 11am.

Grazyna, Hania and Janka will be reunited their mother, Apolonia, who lost her beloved Stanislaw after 65 years of marriage. Just last month I witnessed my mother cry memories, overcome with emotions after visiting her parents in rural Poland. Her heartfelt account of their love brought me to tears.

Not since 1975 have the three sisters been together in the same room of 10 Rocky Lane with their mother. Four Karwowski women, a mother with her three daughters. Tomorrow it will be a homecoming of sorts for them filled with emotions I can only imagine as it will be without Stanislaw.

Stanislaw, Jay and my father. Poland. August 2008

The man who was always smiling. I am forever grateful that my three children were able to witness his laughter last summer.

Kochama ciebie Dziadek Staszek. 
Last Updated on Sunday, 13 September 2009 19:15
 

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# Rachel 2009-09-13 19:09
Aww punkin'

Huge hugs and so many prayers for your family in their travels, their memories and what lies ahead. There will be sadness but, there will also be joy.

Hugs.
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# Jennifer 2009-09-13 19:13
Heartfilled condolences for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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# designhermomma 2009-09-13 19:13
I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like just an amazing man.
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# Mary Beth 2009-09-13 19:19
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandfather. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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# Ann Marie 2009-09-13 19:29
My condolences.

I'm so sorry for your loss. You've written a beautiful post.
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# Clarkinfestedwaters 2009-09-13 19:29
My heart and many prayers go out to you and your family. May the wonderful memories you shared comfort you during this difficult time.
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# Pauline 2009-09-13 19:34
Thank you everyone for your comments.

Im sad to say that we immigrated to the USA when I was just 5 and so many of my memories of my grandfather are fuzzy. Had he moved to the US, like he really wanted to after a visit in the 80s, I would have know him better.

The fate of my grandmother is what worries me today. Will she stay in Poland alone? Or will her daughters convince her to come to the US. She is THE most stubborn lady. I worry about her.
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# jo 2009-09-13 19:37
Kochanie
Bardzo mi jest przykro i bedziemy sie modlic za twojego dziadziusia i cala rodzinke. My deepest sympathies to your entire family.

buzki
jo
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# 3 Peanuts 2009-09-13 19:43
P,

I am so very sorry. I know how loved he was from reading your blog. I pray for peace for your family.

Kim
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# brittany 2009-09-13 19:44
Pauline, I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to your whole family. I loved the picture, it is wonderful your children where able to meet him.

I will keep you all in my thoughts.
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# Heather @ DE 2009-09-13 19:58
Much love to you my friend. I am so sorry that your Grandfather passed away. I am so thankful that your children were able to meet him, especially since he was in Poland. I am sure you will always cherish that photo.

xoxo
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# kim-d 2009-09-13 20:45
I am so sorry for your family's loss, OHMommy! Please pass my condolences along to your family that is now traveling to their Mother's side in Poland.

I read your comment about your concern for your Grandmother; I would feel the same way. What a hard decision for her to have to make at this stage of her life. BUT...I admit, I'm hoping she decides to come here. We would be so fortunate to have her. :)
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# Daniella 2009-09-13 20:45
I am so very sorry for your families loss. Praying for peace for your family and especially for your grandmother during this time. How wonderful your children got to spend time with him.
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# Managed Chaos 2009-09-13 20:47
Thoughts and prayers go out to your and your family today, especially to your grandmother. xoxo
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# Jami 2009-09-13 20:47
My prayers and thoughts to you and your family.
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# MIT Mommy 2009-09-13 21:04
Thoughts, prayers & hugs.
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# Jane 2009-09-13 21:12
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. So very sorry for your loss.
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# Neil 2009-09-13 21:51
Condolences to you and your family.
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# Al_Pal 2009-09-13 21:54
*HUGS* and healing thoughts coming your way. Glad he had such a long life & so much love!
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# Steph @ D & D 2009-09-13 22:08
God bless you and your family as you work through the painful separation and the missing. I know families can be forever and that your grandfather will live again. My best guess is that he'll have guardian angel duty for Jay for a while. :)
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# Elaine 2009-09-13 22:26
May he rest in peace. I'm so glad your children were able to spend time with him. Love, hugs and prayers for your family...
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# jill 2009-09-13 22:50
Heartfelt condolences Pauline. Sending only good thoughts your way as you and your family celebrate your grandfather's memory.
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# Monda 2009-09-13 22:59
My heart goes out to you and your family Pauline! I will keep you in my prayers. XOXO
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# Hailey 2009-09-13 23:00
I am so sorry. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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# Megryansmom 2009-09-13 23:01
Pauline, my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.
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# lceel 2009-09-13 23:18
Spoczywaj w pokoju, Stanislaw.
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# Lady Mama 2009-09-13 23:29
I'm so sorry for your loss. He looks like a wonderful man.
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# Heidi 2009-09-13 23:57
I am so sorry for your loss, your family is in my prayers.
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# anymommy 2009-09-14 00:03
Love to you and your whole family as you deal with his loss.
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# Jillian 2009-09-14 00:06
65 years...I cannot imagine. My heart is with you and yours.
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# Jeni Hill Ertmer 2009-09-14 00:44
My heart goes out to you and your family with the loss of your beloved Grandfather. How fortunate and what a blessing it was that your children had the opportunity to meet and spend time with their Great-grandfather. That, I'm sure, will give you and them wonderful memories over the years to remember him by.
Peace, love and prayers.
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# Chiloe 2009-09-14 01:45
Sending you lots of hugs .
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# Flea 2009-09-14 03:12
Oh honey, I'm so sorry. And so glad that you all spent time with him last summer. May he rest in peace, and all your memories be fond ones.
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# Meg 2009-09-14 04:41
May peace be with him and your family, dear P.
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# TRACI 2009-09-14 07:06
I'm so sorry. What a wonderful blessing your kids met him!
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# Courtney 2009-09-14 08:54
I am so very sorry to hear about your families loss. Let us know about what your grandma decides to do.
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# Jennifer 2009-09-14 09:33
I'm so sorry for your loss, Pauline. You and your family, especially your Grandmother, will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Hugs to you all.
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# Krystyn 2009-09-14 11:10
Prayers to you and your family for your loss. Also, prayers for your mom and aunts as they travel.

((HUGS))
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# Don Mills Diva 2009-09-14 11:41
So sorry for your loss Pauline.

I hope your grandmother comes to the US so you can spend more time with her...
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# cestyeuxbruns 2009-09-14 11:50
my thoughts are with you guys. it's hard to lose a family member and equally hard to deal with how to manage the survivors left behind. i hope everything goes smoothly with everyone in poland and that it all ends well.
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# Audrey at Barking Ma 2009-09-14 12:09
Pauline, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathies, prayers and love go out to you and your family, and most especially your Grandmum.
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# Texan Mama 2009-09-14 12:39
I am so sorry you have lost your grandfather. I am sure you feel the loss very deeply.

My Polish uncle, my grandmother's brother, had the same name.

May Our Lord give you peace, Pauline.
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# amy 2009-09-14 12:41
WHat a beautiful posting. I am so sorryfor the loss of your grandfather. His memories-even fuzzy-will continue through you and your photographs. Your children were so lucky to have met him and spend time with him.
HUGS
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# JennyMac 2009-09-14 13:08
Very touching post. What a blessed family.
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# Anti-Supermom 2009-09-14 13:29
Pauline,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.
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# Legallyblondemel 2009-09-14 14:26
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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# Domestic Goddess.... 2009-09-14 14:48
I am so sorry to hear that. I will say this, the reunion of my aunts, uncle and grandmother upon the death of my grandpa four years ago was a tearful celebration of a wonderful man. I pray that amid their sadness, they can take peace in the joy that be brought you all.
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# Jules 2009-09-14 17:57
I'm really sorry to hear that. My heart is with you.
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# Lisa 2009-09-14 18:34
I am so sorry for your loss. He did sound like an amazing man!

Thinking of you and your family,

Lisa
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# Mishi 2009-09-14 19:24
Bog da go prosti, Dedo Stanislaw. Gospod napred so site vas.
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# Joeys Momma 2009-09-14 19:47
I am so very sorry for your family's tremendous loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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# tracey 2009-09-14 20:36
Your whole family has my condolences, Pauline...
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# Burgh Baby 2009-09-14 20:56
I am so sorry for your loss. :(
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# lyndsey sharp 2009-09-14 21:29
I am sorry for your family's loss.
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# Jennifer 2009-09-14 22:01
I am so sorry for your loss.
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# amy2boys 2009-09-14 22:07
I am so sorry Pauline. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. I recently posted about my own great-grandfather and I can assure you, your children will be glad to have memories and photos with him.
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# Kate Coveny Hood 2009-09-14 22:19
How wonderful that all of those generations could be together in one room. Losing grandparents early on is sad but not unusual. Having great grandparents who you remember is incredibly special.
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# Loukia 2009-09-14 22:19
My deepest and sincere condolences, Pauline. I'm sorry for the loss of your grandfather... he sounded like an incredible man, and it is great that your children had a chance to meet him. That is a great picture of your son with your dad and grandfather. My thoughts are also with your grandmother... she will be blessed from above now, and also to have her three daughters together with her during this tough time. God bless you guys. xoxo
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# Lisa 2009-09-14 22:53
Prayers going out to you, your Mama, your Grandmother, and the rest of your family. May they have peace in the coming days.
XOXO
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# dysfunctional mom 2009-09-15 01:03
Just wanted to tell you again that I am sorry for your family's loss. xoxo
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# Kat 2009-09-15 08:19
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
What a blessing that your children were able to spend some time with him last summer.
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# janet 2009-09-15 09:47
My heart goes out to you and the family. May he rest in peace.
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# Cara 2009-09-15 11:49
I'm so sorry for your family's loss. How wonderful, though, that your children were able to spend time with him. He will live on in your memories.
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# Jaina 2009-09-15 16:31
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I'm glad that you and your family were able to visit him recently, what wonderful memories
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# Marinka 2009-09-15 18:10
I am so sorry for your loss, and for your family's. I'm hopeful that your mother can convince your grandmother to come to the US, but I know that it can't be an easy decision or move. My thoughts are with you all.
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# amy 2009-09-15 21:21
Love to you and yours. xoxoxo
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# mamatulip 2009-09-16 08:40
Much love to you and your family. xoxo
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# Tami 2009-09-16 12:27
So sorry for your loss. I hope your mother and grandmother are doing okay. I will keep you and them in my thoughts and prayers.
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# raisingz 2009-09-16 14:40
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. How nice for your grandmother that she is able to be surrounded by her three loving daughters during this difficult time.
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# Miss E 2009-09-16 19:10
Just read this. I'm so sorry. Wishing your family love and peace and safe travels for those going to Poland. Big hugs, friend.
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# Michele 2009-09-16 21:38
I am so sorry I just read this. I have not been on much. Life is crazy as you well know. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
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# Krista 2009-09-16 22:09
Just getting to read posts from the last several days, and wanted to send you a quick note. Sorry to hear of your loss - you and your family will be in my prayers. Just by hearing you speak of him, I can tell that his memory will live on through the love in your heart.
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# Candi 2009-09-17 01:51
I am very sorry to read about the loss of your Grandfather. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.
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# Denise 2009-09-17 17:53
I am so sorry for your loss. Just consider yourself fortunate that he was able to meet and spend time with your children. Just think you were also able to spend time with him somewhat recently. At least he is in a better place now.
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# melissa 2009-09-20 21:28
my thoughts are with you and your family. i'm so sorry.
xoxo
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