It's that time of year, to give... PDF Print E-mail
Written by OHmommy   
Tuesday, 22 December 2009 00:00

My children love to skip through our neighborhood high-end grocery store suggesting additional items to our weekly menu while tasting free samples of roast beef tenderly prepared by the culinary chef-on-site.  We never leave Heinens without sipping free apple cider.  They do not know hunger.  I hope they never will.

 

When I immigrated to the United States many civic agencies held our hands throughout the journey.  I was exactly my daughter's age when I ate bland soup from an army canister in an Austrian refugee camp.  The textures of my surroundings that night are still so new in my memory but the agency that helped us, has fled my mind.  The CRC paid for our plane tickets to America and years later my mother with a fist-full of dollars and killer stilettos walked into the CRC office to return the money.  No other image makes me giggle with pride as much.

 

My personal history shapes the way I mother.  My three children live in a bubble.  Exposed to poverty only on the occasional volunteering project I so desperately seek out locally or so on our travels abroad.  I want them to be exposed to the world outside of our ridiculously Norman Rockwell-ish community, the bubble, that is powered by bellies full of over-priced organic rice cereal each morning.  Blogging has helped me open those doors introducing my children to more.

 

"The dot com just gave you $100?"  My eldest asked.

"Yes.  I lost a contest online but the company was happy to hear that I was going to donate the money anyways."

"What does donate me?"

"It means to give.  You give when you don't really need. To help someone that really needs it more than you."

"Who are you giving the money to?"

"The Cleveland Food Bank because I read somewhere that Ohio is third in the country with the largest number of kids five and under who are hungry."

"Kids are hungry?"

 

I twittered and twittered and tweeted and tweeted about the contest hoping I would win. I lost. However, and more importantly,  Pear Tree Greetings (the contest organizers) offered me $100 to donate to the Foodbank because they thought it was great that I was going to donate the money.  The Cleveland Food Bank invited us on a special tour.  Which we prepared for and eagerly waited for, with $100 in hand.  And $0.45 of loose change in the pockets of a seven-year-old that just completed his Christmas shopping and that was all he had but he really wanted to give.

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The kids were amazed.  At the sheer volume of the place.  A place bigger than the Home Depot stacked with dry foods that gets replenished every 2 to 3 days due to demand.  Imagine the Home Depot going through their entire stock in 2 days... that is what the Food Bank does.  Because there's a need.

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They found some of their favorites.  Apple sauce.  Peanut Butter.  Ramen noodles.  KIX cereal.  And giggled at the similarities they shared with the foods donated to the Food Bank.  "I love Mac N Cheese."  In which Katrina, our delicious guide, proclaimed that Mac N Cheese was one of the most popular items donated.

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I hope that this "field-trip" to the Cleveland Food Bank will stick out in my children's memories, knowing that our $100 helped 400 meals and that my son's change helped with almost two meals.  Thank you Pear Tree Greetings.  And Cleveland Food Bank.  I was able to teach my children so much today, all because of the dot com.

 

Each second Thursday and third Monday of each month is FAMILY NIGHT at the Cleveland Foodbank.  In which young families (kids ages 6 to 11)  volunteer by re-packaging donated foods.  Pizza and soda is provided.  Please be advised that you must call to make a reservation as the foodbank books well in advance.  Contact Alan, Volunteer Services Manager at 216-738-2053 or afratus at clevelandfoodbank dot org.

Last Updated on Tuesday, 22 December 2009 10:15
 

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# Loukia 2009-12-21 23:18
Good for you, what a great learning experience - and fun at the same time - for your children! :) Nothing feels as great as helping others this time of year, especially!
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# JulieBouf 2009-12-21 23:32
Incredible! Great job. My husband has recently joined the Board of Directors of Girls, Inc. in Philly and I've interviewed at couple of Philadelphia not-for-profits in the last few weeks. Until reading up on these specific agencies I was wrapped into my own little bubble. In addition to help for the homeless and hungry there are so many incredible organizations for those in need. It humbles me. And embarrasses me that it isn't part of my regular routine.

Btw, I barely know you, and have only seen a few pictures of "DrOHMommy" but wow, your son looks SO much like your hubby in that first picture ;)
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# sarah @bakenate 2009-12-21 23:39
I think that is awesome. I should look into the charleston food bank and maybe teach my kids to truly appreciate. we do adopt a family at christmas
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# pgoodness 2009-12-22 00:19
That's wonderful...and good for your son giving what he had!
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# dysfunctional mom 2009-12-22 00:55
I was not prepared to come here and cry tonight. But you made me, you meanie.
You are so awesome for what you do, and I love that you took your children along with you.
The image of your mother repaying that money makes me want to laugh and cry at the same time.
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# Kate Coveny Hood 2009-12-22 07:17
This was wonderful. I love how you always manage to keep everyone in your family grounded and aware of their good fortune BUT somehow make the experience fun for them.
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# HaB 2009-12-22 08:18
Good for you! I can't wait till Maddy is a bit older and we can do some volunteering work. It is always important to give back, because you never know when the tables will turn and you will be on the receiving end of the same sort of generosity.
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# Katie 2009-12-22 08:39
Fantastic!
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# Crystal D 2009-12-22 09:04
Your children will always remember this trip to the food bank and I bet they want to donate every year at Christmas time. You set such a great example for them.
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# Marinka 2009-12-22 09:24
I love everything about this post. I read it in reader this morning, pre-coffee, and had to come back and rave about it. Rave, rave. Brava!
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# Suburban Princess 2009-12-22 09:27
You are such a good mom!
I have the same sort of thing to deal with...my son will never know hunger or need and I keep wondering how I will keep him ballanced and humble!
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# traci 2009-12-22 09:31
What a great gift to give to your kids! One day I will pull it together and repeat my daughters girl scout trip to the local homeless shelter, where they brought in ice cream sundae supplies and board games to play with the kids. It has been her FAVORITE gs function yet.
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# Sherry 2009-12-22 09:48
Way to go, Mom!! We live in a bubble too and it takes some work to expose them to these things, but it is so important! It fills their hearts with so much. We work at our food pantry at least twice a month and it's amazing how much nicer my kids are to each other on those days. They realize they are lucky. It's an awesome thing. We filled stockings this year as a family and our kids were so happy to pass them out to the little ones. It made our Christmas extra speical. So happy you could share this with you little ones. You are extra special!
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# Junebug57 2009-12-22 09:50
Good for you. Your children are adorable.
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# Joanna 2009-12-22 09:55
You have no idea how much that means to me personally. When I was 16, my mother and I lived in a homeless shelter for 4 months, followed by a community project house for 2 years here in Ohio. The Cleveland food bank helped us out so much, and it's wonderful to hear that you took your family to visit it and help others. Thank you.
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# Krystyn 2009-12-22 09:57
First of all, I just love that your mom went back and paid them. It reminds me of the move Cinderella Story.

And, so glad that you were able to have this opportunity to teach and share with your kiddos.

Our girls gave toys to toys for tots with some Christmas money they received. I think it is so important to give and I love instilling that in our children.
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# Kat 2009-12-22 10:04
You are such a good mama. I think that is so important for children to know how to help others.

And I LOVE the image of your mother returning the money. Amazing. :)
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# sarah m 2009-12-22 10:26
I KNOW you don't blog about things like this for praise...but I have to give it to ya! You are such a great mom, and I am inspired every time I read your posts. I, too, have memories of barely-getting-by, and I feel like my path in life made me the strong person I am today. I always wanted to give my kids "more"...but I feel like they are being spoiled, and robbed of character-building lessons, in this process. Thank you for the reminder of how important it is to remove those blinders, if we are to raise civic-minded little ones. Merry Christmas :)
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# jill 2009-12-22 11:16
This is all kinds of awesome... what a Mitzvah you and your kids are doing!

We see poverty every single day. We see it driving down every single street where families sleep on side walks, eat nibbles discarded, running around in clothes that are so dirty you can't begin to imagine. Never in my lifetime have I seen people so poor here - over 400 million people live on less than $2 a day. We open up the gates to our house and walk outside to an entirely different world.

We gave 2 HUGE bags of clothes to an orphanage last week. Clothes that my kids will never even miss. Next are the toys. We just finished up stocking the orphanage of 65 kids who've never had a Christmas.

Your kids made a difference. I hope they feel as good as I do just reading this.
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# Pres. Kathy 2009-12-22 11:40
Giving is such an important thing we must teach our children.
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# Alicia 2009-12-22 12:45
That is such a heartfelt story. It is so important for children to learn to help others and you are doing such a great job with yours. Merry Christmas!
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# Elaine 2009-12-22 18:02
You're like the coolest chick ever, aren't you? We donated toys and clothes this year but food is good too of course! I didn't seek out the other things, the opportunities came to me through church and my moms club.

It's so wonderful for you to go the extra mile AND to be an example for your children. You've motivated me to seek out something like this in our area.
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# Mocha Dad 2009-12-22 18:42
It's always great when families serve others together. I always teach my kids the value of giving. I do it with my words and my actions.
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# Lisa 2009-12-22 21:17
What a wonderful thing that you are teaching your children.... It is certainly a season to give and you have done just that....

Merry Christmas to you nad your beautiful family!! Hope that you have a Happy and Healthy Holiday Season.

Lisa
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# ClarkInfestedWaters 2009-12-22 22:59
If all of us could give just $.45, imagine the difference it could make? Sometimes the biggest gifts come small.

I know your children will always remember this trip, and I so admire you for all you are teaching them.

Wishing you and yours a safe and enjoyable holiday!
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# jo 2009-12-23 16:44
LOVE YOU. And your gorgeous family. Beautiful people you are.
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# Lisa 2009-12-25 13:41
you are an amazing lady. truly - and you are raising an amazing family!!! kudos to you!
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