It's all great until CPS calls my house. PDF Print E-mail
Written by OHmommy   
Tuesday, 15 June 2010 00:00

The summer before my kindergarten year we emigrated to the United States and my father, investing in our future, self published a book in Polish.  My first job was when I was barely five. We spent that summer promoting his book at church picnics.  It became a competition between my sister and I to see who could sell the most.  Each of us ran to our father with fist full of American dollars begging for his affirmation, "Tata!  Tata!"  Throughout that school year, in a one bedroom apartment, my sister and I answered the door selling more copies of the book while my pregnant mother slaved over laundry downstairs.

 

Years later my parents purchased a neighborhood hardware store where I spent countless weekends behind the cash register serving some of the most interesting characters in Chicago's Polish community.  Never being allowed a weekly allowance I juggled working at the store for extra spending money while being a teenager.  "I don't know what the Phish concert is about.  I no give you money.  You want?  You work!"  So while my suburban American friends with normal families slept in on Saturday mornings, I was recommending power tools to immigrants after mandatory Polish school let out.  This is why I never ever understand any references made to Saturday morning cartoons, to date.

 

For as long as I can remember - each member of our family has contributed to our business.  This year my nearly eight year old son beat a family record of being the youngest associate working the longest day.  For $2.25 an hour he managed to make it six hours accompanying Tata from store-to-store-to-warehouse-to-another-store-to-the-warehouse-again-and-to-the-last-store.  Kudos to my son and his patience.  I have vivid memories of my short tempered father angrily correcting my mistakes; but my son, years after my own experiences has nothing but good memories from his first day on the job with Tata.

 

"I pay for lunch if work for $2.25 for hour; if I pay $2.50, no lunch included."

 

"Which is the better deal, Mama?"  My son eagerly approached me during the negotiation process.

 

"Are you sure you want to work all day long?"  I hovered.

 

"Yes.  If I work ten hours I will make $22.50.  That's so much, Mama!"

 

"I take photos.  It will be good blog."  Tata (the most frequent visitor to Classy Chaos - reading comments three times a day) smiled.

 

 

 

And off they went...

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For six hours the two of them worked.  Four stores.  One warehouse.  Countless amounts of cardboard boxes placed in car.  Two "free" coffee mugs.  One "free" Black Hawks tee-shirt purchased at a gas station.  A lunch.  And $13.50 richer, my son came home all smiles.

 

"You see?"  Tata said.  "It's a great America."

Last Updated on Monday, 14 June 2010 23:28
 

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# Kristin K 2010-06-14 22:30
Love it! Families, working, America, LOVE IT!
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# Rachel 2010-06-14 22:34
adorably sweet.
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# awholelotofnothing 2010-06-14 22:39
Get 'em started early, I say.

I'm sending my 5yo up to you on the first flight out tomorrow morning.
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# Margarita 2010-06-14 23:03
That's hilarious! I had to go to mandatory Polish school saturday mornings as well, so a lot of my cartoon watching fell by the wayside :( I was so happy when in high school we didn't have to go anymore!
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# dysfunctional mom 2010-06-15 02:32
He looks so proud of himself!
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# ClassyFabSarah 2010-06-15 05:00
This brought tears to my eyes - what a sweet boy!
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# For Love or Funny 2010-06-15 06:24
God Bless America! And kudos to everyone who understands the notion that if you work hard, good things will come! You are doing a great job teaching that to your boy!!!
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# MommyTime 2010-06-15 06:40
Love it. This is so much better than just getting a giant allowance every week, I think. And the pictures are great.
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# Coma Girl 2010-06-15 07:11
"I no give you money. You want? You work!" I love that. I have to use it, but it may not be as affective without the accent...
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# Momo Fali 2010-06-15 07:25
You should hear your father's accent in my head. I think I could do a pretty good impression.

Kudos for teaching your son to appreciate that hard work earns you money (and respect). Also, what are you feeding that boy? My son turned eight in May and is wearing 4T shorts right now.
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# Pauline 2010-06-15 17:16
LOL - when I type his words I have to use his accent in my head. Too funny.
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# Managed Chaos 2010-06-15 07:44
Math lessons, hard work, dedication and time spent with his grandfather. Sounds like a priceless afternoon. I think we'll be reading about Jay's success for many years to come.
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# Sherry 2010-06-15 08:55
Love this...my Grandparents owned a hardware store in St. Louis..I don't remember working much, but we had so many memories playing there and meeting all the customers. Kudos to you for such a great lesson. Our house is busting with teens right now and it's so hard to teach them the value of a dollar and hard work. They think our bank account is endless. What a blessing for your son to be able to work with Tata.
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# Loukia 2010-06-15 09:03
Awesome. I love keeping it in the family, working for family and supporting eachother. And a great thing to teach our children from a young age, too, about work ethic.

P.S. I was in Greek school Saturday mornings, too. What are these 'cartoons' people speak of? ;)
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# polwig 2010-06-15 09:53
I think this is such a great babysitting experience... much better then wings for lunch..oh wait.. where did they have lunch?
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# Pauline 2010-06-15 17:16
Dunkin Donuts. Eww.
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# allison 2010-06-15 10:03
while I remember Saturday morning cartoons, we always had chores to do or help my dad outside with some random project he was doing. Somehow I remember doing the chores and my brother got out of them.....
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# Pres. Kathy 2010-06-15 10:12
This is something your son will never forget. What a great experience.
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# Rebecca 2010-06-15 10:33
So sweet - and such an important lesson to teach!

Is Tata polish for Grandfather? My mother is reffered to lovingly as Tata by my kids - because "Safta" is Hebrew for grandma but my sister's Israeli kids could only say 'Tata' when they were little. All this time we thought we were the only family with a Tata.
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# Pauline 2010-06-15 17:17
Tata is Father in Polish. Dziadek is Grandfather.

My husband calls me Zona (wife in Polish) but apparently it means Bitch in Hebrew I think? Am I right?
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# PolPrairieMama 2011-02-10 13:53
If your heritage is Polish, don't worry about what that word means in a different language if that other language is not part of your heritage.

There is a word in Polish which means forcible sex (like rape, basically, it's really nasty) that in Greek means "clothing". And a particular man's nickname common in Ivory Coast Mouni in Greek means a woman's private part. Does that mean that man should not be called his name or that Greeks shouldn't call clothing that in Greek? Nope. That would be silly...

:lol:
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# Indy 2010-06-15 12:38
Love this post. You should submit it to a publication for the 4th of July. Great story.
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# amy 2010-06-15 12:53
This brings back memories of going to the office with my dad and little sister at my families hardware/kitchen/bath etc store on Richmond and Miles. We were so "helpful"
at the switchboard that we got booted out to the kitchens.
A lovely memory for Jay to cherish when he is working for Tata during the summer when he is 14,15,16.......
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# Rachel 2010-06-15 15:05
Is Tata hiring? I've got a couple quick learners who'd like to earn a little yard-sale-spending money.
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# Rima 2010-06-15 19:47
I hated, hated, hated the fact that I couldn't watch Saturday morning cartoons b/c of Lithuanian school! And when we moved to North Carolina where there are NO Lithuanians, I thought I'd be home free. Except my mom decided to home school us in Lithuanian on Saturday mornings.
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# Carabee 2010-06-15 20:54
I worked with my mom in her record store from the time I was 9 or 10 years old. My early jobs were simple tasks, cleaning and helping with stocking, and I really do think they helped me learn a solid work ethic. I would love to do the same sort of thing with my child. If CPS comes after us for that sort of thing, this country is in worse shape than I thought.
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# Crystal D 2010-06-15 23:23
Madeline would be so jealous if she knew about his "job." She asks me, all the time, how kids can earn money. LOL
Right now her only hope is losing her teeth.
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# Jill 2010-06-16 09:55
I love this post! Brings back memories of working at the Western Auto store with my parents. Except I remember a lot of coloring and watching the floor model TVs so I would "stay out of the way." My son at 6 helps plant Christmas trees for our family tree farm, so I guess he's learning as well. Christmas Trees will get him to college!
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# The Divas Thoughts 2010-06-16 10:06
Aaawwww. I love this post.
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# Sarah@BecomingSarah 2010-06-16 12:37
I love this post - it's so sweet! (Also, my father is the most frequent visitor of my blog too. I love that.)
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# Tara R. 2010-06-16 14:23
Such a fabulous life lesson for your son, and a wonderful way to connect with his grandfather.
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# lceel 2010-06-16 20:48
Tata takes good pictures. He has a good eye. I think maybe he missed his calling.

(Just call me brownnose.)
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# GreenInOC 2010-06-17 13:59
Any chance he could grab a set of plain white, well made dinnerware and ship it to me next time he works?!?!

I can't find any that I like and every time I check the dom itp website, there is only patterned dinnerware.

I'll double his salary and send homemade cupcakes too!!
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# Elaine 2010-06-22 08:14
Y'all are like the sweetest family on the planet. No lie. Great job to your little man!
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# PolPrairieMama 2011-02-10 13:54
Wish my parents had Polish school to send me to growing up. :) Go figure! My older will be starting next year, she can't wait!

And your Tato is so sweet, he reminds me of my father, a very hard working Pole who believes in "Honest days work, honest days pay". Bravo! Your son looks so dumni in that picture! Adorable!
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