Thankful for those little reminders PDF Print E-mail
Written by OHmommy   
Friday, 30 July 2010 00:00

I've retold this story at least a dozen times in passing this month and it always makes me smile.  I hope one day my daughter will stumble across this and smile as well.

 

After an exhausting Saturday morning of running tedious errands Jeff and I treated the children with a visit to Malley's Chocolate store in Cleveland.  It was their first time there.  Outside of the store we handed a dollar bill to each child and stressed the importance of staying on budget, mostly to maintain any shred of sanity on our parts.  Eager to get inside the eldest and most financially responsible pushed the door open grasping his bill.  The middle child sometimes a bit flighty followed closely behind picking up her dollar each time it fell out of her hand.  The youngest of the pack trailed behind at her own pace.

 

The cashier, a woman nearing eighty years, gracefully swayed her head each time a child passed by - her wise eyes adsorbing their assertive strides through the aisles of chocolate.  One by one they obediently followed an invisible line walking by her on a mission.  In a raspy voice she sang outloud to herself, "I've been around a long time to recognize trouble when I see it."

 

"Excuse me?"  I asked, suddenly afraid of the answer.

 

"That one."  She slowly lifted her aging hand and pointed to my youngest daughter.  "I would bet a chocolate bar that she's the most trouble."

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Feenie with my cousin at my sister's wedding. Photo by Missy.

 

"How do you know?"  Flabbergasted I nervously chuckled before continuing.  "She is trouble.  We've even bestowed the name Hurricane Feenie upon her."

 

"When you are as old as me you just know."  Her tired hand grasped her chest for a moment before continuing with a smile.  "You have a beautiful family, young lady.  Enjoy even the occasional hurricanes in life."

Last Updated on Thursday, 29 July 2010 22:37
 

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# Alecia 2010-07-29 21:54
What a sweet old woman! That is a great story!
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# JulieBouf 2010-07-29 22:00
Awwwwwwwwww. I just love older women who genuinely love children. Seeing our kids through their eyes and having them say something positive is like winning the Nobel prize in parenting.

My 5yo's therapist...upon having to bring my 20mo old with us to a session later remarked to me, Wow THAT one's a handful, huh? When the experienced ones comment our our little wind storms, I believe it's officially time to worry.
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# Texan mama 2010-07-29 22:25
And... one day you will be that lady. You'll see mischief coming and recognize it well.

I'm betting she has a Feenie of her own.
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# Kristen 2010-07-29 23:24
aww what too adorable. Old people are amazing with what they say because they never hold back!
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# Diana 2010-07-29 23:53
LOL! That's cute. Love what she said.

I must be nearing old age... I've been doing that kinda talk stuff lately.
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# ClassyFabSarah 2010-07-30 05:55
That picture is too precious! What sweet memories!
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# Betsy 2010-07-30 08:20
Malley's!! My best friend named her dog after that store!! We love it!
Hurricane memories - those are the best.
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# Tara R. 2010-07-30 08:20
Hurricane Feenie... I love it! The photo is perfect.
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# Jessi 2010-07-30 10:12
Such a sweet woman, even if she did call out trouble when she saw it!
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# lceel 2010-07-30 10:17
Hurricane Feenie ... the one child for whom everything is bigger - the highs, the lows and everything in between. SHE is special - SHE is going to take you places you would otherwise never go.

Witam, Tata.
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# Kasia 2010-07-30 11:14
I no hurricane, I Feenie!
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# Elaine 2010-07-30 13:50
Maybe when we get to "F" this hurricane season that will be its name... he he.

I could re-count a similar story about my Little G. She's right, they can just TELL.
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# Kristy 2010-07-30 14:35
aww..that made me a little teary eyed..:-)
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# amy 2010-07-30 16:52
Quoting Kasia:
I no hurricane, I Feenie!

I love this..
I also got teary eyed as I read this. Sweet as Malley's chocolate.
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# Elisa 2010-07-30 16:54
Awww, what a lovely thing to say! What a cool lady.
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# tracey 2010-07-31 09:28
Dangit. Hurricanes may be wild and crazy but they are magnificent and awe-inspiring, too.
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# anymommy 2010-08-01 00:00
Words to live by. They all blow over way too soon.
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# Carissa 2010-08-01 23:18
Hey there! First.. it's been a while since I made a bloggy tour of some of my faves.. gosh girl how are you!?

Second... I KNOW THAT pottery!! I brought home some of THE most lovely polish pottery from Warsaw 10 years ago.. wow do I LOVE it!

Third, I can honestly say I've never seen beans look so yummy...!

Cheers!
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# Candi 2010-08-02 00:20
So so sweet!!
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# Stephanie 2010-08-02 17:09
What a poetic, wise woman! So neat!
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# Monda 2010-08-03 20:03
Love this!
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