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Tuesday, 06 September 2011 12:36

Leaving most of our belongings in Poland we arrived in America with the shirts on our back and five hundred dollars in my father's pocket.

 

That was just enough to secure an apartment and furnish it with mismatched pieces handed down to us through friends. We purchased a used car. My mother enrolled me at the local Catholic school where the nuns waived the tuition for us. My kindergarten uniform was donated by someone in the first grade and my back-to-school sneakers were purchased at a garage sale. Two months into the school year I opened up the hall closet in our one bedroom apartment and found a box of toys donated by an organization that were to be our Christmas presents two months later.

 

Our family survived that first year through the good grace of others.

 

Five years later my father saved enough money to pay back Catholic Relief Services for our plane tickets to Chicago. My mother marched into the office proudly holding an envelope containing three times more then we had arrived with and offered it to CRS. "I pay you back." she told them. I don't think I have ever shared that story but the image reminds me of the strong worth ethic that my parents believe in. We had many people and organizations that helped our family and my parents wanted to make sure they could pay it forward so that others would have the same opportunities.

 

This summer when my husband and I were looking for an organization to donate our washer/dryer to, we focused our search on Cleveland families in need. Through a good friend we learned about the Kids of Sudan. In 1987, 17,000 boys were forced from their homes as Islamic fundamentalist death squads invaded Southern Sudan in an ethnic cleaning frenzy. They spent years in refugee camps and became known as the "Lost Boys". Twenty-nine of the original "Lost Boys" came to Cleveland. Kids of Sudan is a local organization that ensures the children of the "Lost Boys" never have the childhood they experienced. I was immediately drawn to the organization as an immigrant myself.

 

On a sunny Sunday morning we loaded our washer/dryer and drove it to the home of one of the "Lost Boys".

SonSudan

 

We were greeted with smiles. Honest smiles that reminded me of my father beaming with pride while saying "Great Americka is all around us" when we begged to go to Great America amusement park.

 

Indeed, Tata. It is a great Americka full of organizations that ensure possibilities. Without them I would not be here today.

Last Updated on Tuesday, 06 September 2011 23:42
 

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# lceel 2011-09-06 15:22
This, more than anything, is what I love about you: you remind me of what I have, what I was born to, what I, like most Americans, take for granted. You remind me, and make me realize just how very lucky I am.

And you remind me just how much I owe your Tata, if not for him and your Matka, I wouldn't know you - and that would be a shame.
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# Kasia 2011-09-06 15:27
Such a great story. Aren't Sudanese people beautiful!?
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# Laurie 2011-09-06 16:43
Don't you think your story would make a fabulous book? As I read each segment, I'm wishing for more details. Many, many more details. Think about it. :)
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# LOVD 2011-09-06 17:23
Very touching, Pauline. Wonderful to give back! I call my dad, Tata, too! I was first generation here in the States. I paid tribute to my father's labor today in my post. I love that as children we never really were aware at how much we didn't have. I think we have amazing parents that were so courageous to come to America for a better life.
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# Marta 2011-09-06 17:45
I'm sure they were very grateful for your washer and dryer!
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# Kate Coveny Hood 2011-09-06 18:17
Pauline - you are always so thoughtful in the way you make decisions. You don't just pick up the Purple Heart bag that came in the mail and say, "well isn't that convenient - as a reward YOU get the donation this time."

I also love the way you embrace your city and try to give back locally...

Lots of lessons to be learned here about how to be an active participant in your own corner of the map.
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# Tracey Becker 2011-09-06 20:35
Well! You just made me tear up...
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# Jesse Weinberger 2011-09-07 07:06
Pauline - like Tracey Becker - I also teared up but for different reasons.

My dear friend Allison Wouters and I started Kids of Sudan with a group of phenomenal and dedicated local Cleveland volunteers.

The Lost Boys of the Sudan's immigrant story began with a genocide and saw salvation at the hands of the US State Dept when a few hundred of those "Lost Boys" were relocated to the United States.

Thousands of southern Sudanese children are currently still at risk of being wiped out in the continued genocide.

Pauline - do not underestimate the depth of this particular good deed. It may seem a simple thing - but for these "boys" (who are now men), it means the world.

Thank you a million times over!
-Jesse

BTW - For any of you interested: I would suggest watching the documentary "God Grew Tired of Us", it chronicles the collective story of these young men. The film is readily available at your local public library.
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# Ryan_The Woven Momen 2011-09-07 09:00
Wow. This is lovely. What a beautiful story, come full circle!
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# PolPrairieMama 2011-09-07 11:44
Beautiful lesson in this, Paulinku. I think that is what mysband doesn't understand about my family and myself. Why we can't just throw something away if it is still usable. Because someone somewhere could be in the same position we once were in as fresh immigrants (or as native borns as well).
Just saw the documentary on the Lost Boys. Broke.my.heart. I've been wondering how I could help. Thank you.
And hugs to you and your family. I've never met you but it's so wonderful hearing about other families like ours. Na razie...
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Happily married mother to 3 Cleveland natives: Jay the son, Lola the daughter, and Fifi the preschooler.

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